I have got myself in a right pickle, and need some advice.

[Infern0]

Hey guys, this is my first post here, never felt the need to ask advice before, this will be a long post, so please bear with me.

I have been working at a store for around a year now, and recently discovered that we will be closing down in a few months. I have also recently realised that I have strong feelings for my boss, I am not sure if it's love but it feels stronger than anything i have ever felt, so i'm going to take a stab and say it is.

Now here is where the problems start.

First off I am a 24 year old Man, she is a 30 year old woman, she may find the age gap strange?

Also, because I didn't know i felt this way (I have always been attracted to her, but now it's more) I may have misrepresented myself, considering her a boss, and not a friend aswell. Because of this I guess i didn't act myself around her, and made little effort to get to know her and things.

I now enter a situation, where the clock is ticking, if I don't do something soon, when we finish here, we will part ways, and I'll lose her from my life. I don't want that.

Does anyone know what I should do?

feel free to ask questions, I will answer them honestly.

[Freshly]

Ask her out just before store shuts, shes says no well you never have to see her again

[vashti]

Yeah - when the time is right (close to when the store is closing) just ask her if she would consider dating you once she isn't your boss anymore.

[Sonrisa]

if we are talking about a couple of months, I would start asking her out to lunches, nothing more. just so you could talk and see if there's any chemistry.

[Infern0]

Thanks for the advice, I guess i am going to start asking her out for lunches or whatnot, I think i need to lay some groundwork before i ask her to date.

[Sonrisa]

hey, keep us posted how it goes