It sounds like an after thought, not a genuine inclusion. If you were included she would have told you it was going to happen before it happened and she would have given you a choice for it not to happen if you didn't want it to.
She didn't give you any choice in the matter and she did it behind your back.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~