Is he still in love with me?

[maclhen]

i think he still loves you but he dont want to have commitment to anybody

[maclhen]

yeah...i think so...

[maclhen]

yes!!!!he does

[maclhen]

he want to be focus on her study but he still loves you!!!

[maclhen]

yeahhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!i think so....

[maclhen]

all he need is time...but he loves you still!!!

[maclhen]

based on her msg i think he loves you

[maclhen]

yup...i think so....

[maclhen]

he says he loves you but maybe he said that just to have an excuse???

[maclhen]

well just move on..if he do really loves you he will do everything just to win you back...

[maclhen]

go on girl!!!

[maclhen]

you done it well..its nice to respect his decision...

[maclhen]

just move on...

[everybodybutme]

To the OP, no one is going to change their opinion regardless of whether or not you add this minute details that seem to add up in your head. You are reading into all of it far too much and that alone is a sign that you have lost yourself in this relationship (which no longer exists anymore).

Yes, I realized I'm reading too much of the situation.I'm just miserable. I just don't know how to cope with this. Seriously don't know how to.

Last night, I realized that he just doesn't care anymore. His actions show that he couldn't care less for me. Like last Saturday, when we hung out with our common friend, he was with a guy he just obviously met. I told myself not to react to the awkwardness too much, that I'd try to show that I'm mature enough to handle situations like that. When it came down to downing shots, my exbf counted 3 shots, excluding mine. So I said I want one too, in reflex . The weird thing was he paid for his friend's and the other guy's drinks, and not mine. I know it's NOT supposed to be a big deal but I felt like, he was deliberately showing he doesn't care anymore. No more mister nice guy. He treats me so differently compared to his other ex's. Then I told him, I miss him, and he just shrugged his shoulders, didn't even say, "ok". Small things or details like that are obviously indicative of him not caring for me anymore. I just don't understand why he wants me to be good friends with him when he's clearly ignoring me and showing other people that he couldn't care less. I know for a fact that he doesn't treat his other ex's that way. Why would he treat me so differently?

I didn't do anything wrong to him, he was the one who cheated. I should be the one to treat him indifferently and harshly since he's the one who cheated, lied and lied more to me.

it hurts. the only thing keeping me sane right now is work.

[lahnnabell]

I think he's realizing that the friend thing isn't working and instead of getting his hands dirty and cutting off contact himself, he wants to piss you off just enough so that you'll stop contacting him. Hence the direct coldness. He doesn't treat his other exes this way because you are the most recent.

Stop talking to him. Stop texting him. Stop telling him you miss him. STOP. You will only begin to heal when this dude is out of your life. It takes time but take it one day at a time. Get your friends together and go out. Take up a new hobby. Throw yourself into work or school. You should be free to scream and cry and yell about this guy, but when he is out of ear shot. Nothing you do or say will turn the situation around, so let your friends be your sounding board. This is a new chapter for you.