Ex popping up at places I go?

[street38]

Why?
Why would your ex girlfriend show up at a place she knows you are going to be at? My buddies band was playing at a clud here in town. All my friends from way back are their. Her and a girlfriend of hers is standing right at the door when I walk in? I didnt say a word just walked right by and hung out with my friends. I know she is seeing someone and so am I so I really don't know why she would be there with out him or there at all? Any body have a clue. She is 39 years old. Too old to be playing games and old enough to respect my space as i do hers..

[dewilliams2]

Maybe she just wanted to see some bands?...coincidences happen.

[street38]

Maybe? My buddies band? I didnt even think she liked them when I took her to see them..??
Plenty of bands to see around here anyway.

[dewilliams2]

I'm just saying its possible....I mean you said you didn't know if she liked them....if it becomes a habit then maybe you have something but one occasion isn't a huge deal....I mean maybe her girlfriend wanted to c the band...was your friends band the only one playing?

Maybe you should have talked to her and been like "hey what are you doin here?"...then you coulda at least judged her motives by her reaction and answer...but ya walked by her so all you have is that she was at place where there was music and your friends band was playing.

I'm not saying she wasn't doing it on purpose for some odd reason...all I'm saying is you really have no proof other than she was in a place your buddies friends band was playing.

[street38]

Yep. My friends band was the only one playing. You could be right though.. I didn't stay too long. Me and a few friends decided to go check out another club.
About three or four weeks before that my friends band was playing another place and she face booked she was attending and was never sent an invite but never showed up i don't think? I just feel like she is either messing with me or wants some drama..

[xxazurexx]

So she shows up at one gig. ...yet your title suggested she was popping up here, there and everywhere.

I don't think that because she showed up at one event that it's a case for concern or means anythng.

Maybe she fanices a guy who she knew was going, or she arranged to meet her bf there and he never showed up...or her friend wanted to go, so she went along with her, or they were bored and had nowhere else to go....or she fancies your buddy perhaps, or her friend fancies your buiddy....could be any reason.

[street38]

Your could be right. Her friend or she could be fancing one of my married friends? This is the third time I have run into her. It was another friends band that was playing the other two times. I can see once or twice but three times? I also got three emails from her that had a virus in them. Some kinda a e card. I text her to tell her and she said someone hacked her acount and she said she was sorry. She then asked how I was doing. I replied "doing fine and you?". She said she was doing well and she thinks about me all the time. This was a few months ago.. We ended the conversation in an argument just like normal. Then I start seeing her at places I go. I know where she goes and don't go their???