i have been going out with the most amazing man on the planet for about a year and a half-ish. im not sure if every couple does this, but we would have our arguments over the same thing (if he doesnt call me i guess i go crazy and end up calling him like 50 times in less than an hour... but i got better at it and only do it when we fight if he hangs up on me) and then wed break up, and like, a day later after both of us were babies and cried our eyes out we got back together. last summer, we broke up and didnt get back together until my birthday, october 19th. so we were broken up for a few months. we still acted like boyfriend and girlfriend. we still had sex, we still said i love you, we still hung out like every day and held hands together. i guess it was kind of like a break up but kinda not because we did not see other people. and i know some people sound stupid when they say that cuz ur like "oh well hes lying if he said he didnt sleep with anyone else" but i know for certain... like im 400 percent sure nothing went on with him and another girl... because hes not one of those kinda guys just searching to get laid. which is one of the reasons why i love him. but anyways. so we got back together, and we just broke up again... but not because i call so much. but because he was feeling like the spark was gone. and i have been feeling that he felt that way lately... because everytime we hang out alone, hes just dead silent. but when were with his friends, hes talkative... and i could sense he was feeling it but i was scared to bring it up. so, we broke up. and i dont know whats been going on. like, i want to talk to him all the time, but when i get on the phone with him, i feel like i cant even talk... almost like weve grown apart? ive felt like this for like a couple weeks now... but i still love him. and we still say i love you to each other, and we keep talking to each other and keep saying "well get through this i know we will, i want to grow old with you. i want to have kids with u and marry u." i dont know what im feeling, and i dont know what to do. all i know is i love him so much, and i want to marry him. but i feel like we dont talk anymore. please help me.