This is an interesting community in that we have all kinds -- the kinder ones, the harsh tell-it-like-it-is kinds, the jokers... and many others. The moderators are generally nice and do give you a lot of leeway, especially if you don't take yourself too seriously.
Welcome... pull up a seat and make yourself at home.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen