Is it wrong??......

[joe schmoe]

to repeatedly have sex with a girl you don't care about??

[Laguna]

As long as she enjoys it, I believe it would be ok. - if she thinks you love her, i would feel kind of bad to keep having sex. :\

[Rach]

I think it's fine as long as you BOTH know it['s no feelings attached sex. It would kinda be wrong to lead the poor girl on, or let her think you have feelings for her.

[DownWithLove]

As long as she had no feelings for you it's fine. I'm going to say it is not fine though because you are asking. It shows some guilt, i.e. you know she has feelings. So quit f@cking her and go find someone else. Don't be lazy. There has to be someone else in this word willing to "do" you.

[Pulchritudinous]

"Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. And sometimes sex is just sex."

...just make sure she know's she's getting your "cigar" with no strings attached.

[joe schmoe]

lol... she knows its just sex, i think 'my guilt' comes from the fact I'm actively seeking a lady for a little more than sex but i'm still getting my 'cigar' from her

[sleepy]

so, have sex with her but start to look around for someone more your type for a relationship? i.e. have some sex. then go to church/library/school and chat up someone you respect.

[BandoMan]

I don't know. To me, sex is something you do with someone you love. I don't like this whole, together but having sex with other people, or cheating, or friends with benefits. Maybe it all confuses my young mind. But as for now I stand strongly against mindless sex. I'd just like to fall in love with someone and then when the time is right, have sex. Cause when you really love someone, that's when sex is at it's best!

... but that's just me.

[jane]

well.. whats the old saying... Even Bad Sex is still good sex! lol.. I think that if she knows you are not in love with her.. and she is willing to knock boots anyway.. who cares. I think my guilt would get to me tho.. I would be afraid someone, either He or I would end up being attached.

[squirrley]

I couldnt personally go and have sex just for the sake of getting a piece, even if it were understood no strings. Im in a mind set that sex is special and should be shared between two people who care deeply about one another. It sounds like youre already feeling guilty for not having those feelings for her. If youre feeling that way, Id stop having sex with her. Doesnt it seem pointless to you? I dont know, guess some people have to do what they have to do...yea you could continue to have sex with her if youre both feeling ok about it, but youre questioning yourself here, so maybe that should tell you something!

[misombra]

does she REALLY know that it's just sex with no strings? you never know, she might have hopes that eventually she'll be your "more." women get a lot more attached with sex than men. that's the generalization anyway. if you're guilty, then you're probably doing something that you don't think is right.

[Clifton]

to repeatedly have sex with a girl you don't care about??

If it is, then, i dont wanna be right.

If shes aware its just sex, and that you dont care about her, then theres nothing wrong with it.

[Clifton]

so, have sex with her but start to look around for someone more your type for a relationship? i.e. have some sex. then go to church/library/school and chat up someone you respect.

Relationships are a waste of time unless hes older. Looks like hes on a good track right now.

[Clifton]

does she REALLY know that it's just sex with no strings? you never know, she might have hopes that eventually she'll be your "more." women get a lot more attached with sex than men. that's the generalization anyway. if you're guilty, then you're probably doing something that you don't think is right.

That generalizations bullshit, i know some girls who are sexual predators, and have you begging for more, but to them it was just some dick. and to squirlly:
Sex is always special if you make it so, wether or not its with someone you love is irrelevant (for me) Its a way of connecting with someone, mentally and physically..if there is no love there- the atmosphere you create can still leave the expirience special.

[Illusional]

bottom line.. are you fine with only using her for sex?? is she fine with it?? would she cut off your balls if she knew the truth??

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