I am in a troubled relationship with my live in girlfriend of almost 2 years, whom despite extreme control issues, and non ability to compromise or come up with any solution to disagreement other than her way or the highway,I am still in hopelessly in love with.
We are currently seperated. we are talking more than we have in months, and she is now showing more affection than I have recieved from her in months, but there is no resolution to the issues that have seperated us.
I am willing to be totally honest, and I am willing to be admit ,and consider my own flaws, as I know that I am not anywhere near perfect.I will do the best that I can to see her side as well. and tell everything that I have done wrong in the past to hurt her, as well as the things that hurt me.
I reallywant this to work , but at the same time, Even though I was able to be happy despite her demand to have control of everything from the topics(such as cars and politics) that i was able to discuss with my friends when she was there, to the jobs that I worked at,despite how confident I was in my ability to do them or my desire to take them,as long as things were good between us, I no longer believe I can live under absolute rule,or in a situation where i have to always submit,and live without her ever caring enough about my feelings enough to give even the smasselt consession for my sake.
I will continue monitoring this string, and will answer any Question no matter how blunt. But I need serious help