Do girls find guys who have had more girlfriends more attractive than guys who have had less? E.G.: A guy who has never had a girlfriend and is over 20 vs. Someone who is the same age and has had seven.
I couldn't fit it in the title, but the other question is about possibly lying about the number of people you've been with.
I feel like since I haven't even been with a girl that people will think something is wrong with me. So, my solution when I get my first girlfriend is to lie to her about the number of girlfriends I've had. Not directly, like announcing on a date that I've had X number of girlfriends, but if there is some kind of anecdote that I want to use relating to women I'll add "One of my past girlfriends had this quality." I'll also avoid the question point blank if she asks with "I don't like to talk about my previous relationships," unless she insists, which then I'll say I've had "X number of girlfriends," and I'll be quick to follow up with something similar to "I'm going to the University Florida, I'm majoring in Mechanical Engineering, I have a 3.8 GPA, my shoe size is 13, I love my mom, my favorite food is chicken Alfredo, and my birthday is in February, any other questions?" to get her to laugh and to quit pressing the issue (or any other resume style question).
The reason for this is I worked somewhere this past summer where I got picked on quite a bit by women for not having had a girlfriend. So I made up a couple of stories about dates I went on and parties I went to (I can lie pretty well). I've never been on a date nor a real party, really. After hearing about this they all quit with the bullying, and actually tried to get me to ask out coworkers and get the numbers of customers! I refused on the basis of the fact I was going to quit and move out of town in 2 and a half weeks, (which was true) but it makes me think: the guy who has women in his life is more attractive to women than the one who doesn't. It is like getting some jobs with no experience. (I need a job to get experience!)
So, the idea is that I get my story straight beforehand. I'll figure out what an optimal number of girlfriends are, memorize some names, and read some stories about dates and girlfriends I can make my own. I'd basically make a journal I could go back and review so I could make sure that story is consistent.
I've also been reading a ton of books on relationships, flirting, dating, etc... about one a day for the past week or so, so I know a bunch of cutsy relationship stuff to do to make it look like I've done this before.
I'm really just deeply afraid that she will think something is "wrong" with me. I'm an atheist, so there is nothing religious in the way. I've been going to college so there's no shortage of possible girlfriends. There's been some trauma in my childhood and I've had the worst bout of acne that I have ever seen (Seriously. The scars are ENORMOUS and turned about 65% of my face permanently red.) that is probably responsible for this happening, and that only adds to the idea that the problem is me.
So, lying is the solution. What do you think?