Hey Ianv,
I def think you are making all the right choices. I also, know that its easier said then done. Mt g/f and i have been broken up for about a month now and the conclusion that you came to is the best one. I think thats the route that i have to take and for once stick to it. Hang in there.........Hahaha i did all the same thingg with the away messages and the idle,,,its funny how everyones situation are so similiar. I hate games more than anything but the thing is that you have to be apart of them. THey dont need you to be all over them, they need you to not want them.........So, follow the course man,,,,,no matter what you will be ok.....