Originally Posted by
amigoingcrazy
I just split 4 days ago with my GF not for the first time , she made the choice and I realise she felt she needed to , I think this might be a good chance for both of us to "reset" ourselves so I am going for the no contact rule (I dont like games but think this is the best way to go while having a break) I was going to wait 3 weeks and was wondering if after that time ringing her to arrange to pick my things up from her house was a good reason for contact or does that smack of "give me my stuff I am out of here?" as I dont know any other ice breaker to arrange a meet up. A womans view on this would be great as I want some time to make myself a better person to restart the relationship