Comments and opinions about this situation

[medic_man]

which is fine, don't jump then, but it doesn't mean you have to play games.

That is actually a fair point. From were I am with my situation how should I proceed then?

[Sonrisa]

don't get emotionally attached to her, otherwise do whatever you want. go out when YOU want to, call or text when YOU feel like it. embrace yourself and follow your own desires.

[medic_man]

Yea that's fair enough. Cheers for the advice

[xxazurexx]

Sonrisa has me feeling bad now...I was encouraging to play games :| lol

Well sort of....when I said throw scraps to her :|

[Gigabitch]

"Friends" don't send dirty texts. She's being a pain in the ass.

[medic_man]

Well I'm meeting up with her on Friday. I'm not going to play any games but just be straight with her. The exciting texts are slowly starting again and I have even got her a nice gift

[xxazurexx]

Lucky her

What did you buy her?

Hope it wasn't from Pound Shop, lmao.

[medic_man]

Well I got her some thorntons chocolate.

She text me today and she sees me as a friend now which sucks. Things might change but I don't know. If it's meant to be then it's meant to be. Should I eat the chocolates myself or should I still give them to her on friday?

[vashti]

if a girl says "let's be friends first" she wasn't really all THAT interested to begin with. It means she isn't attracted to you, but if some sort of magic occurs, she might change her mind.

Eat the chocolates yourself. It won't do you any good at all to give them to her.

[xxazurexx]

Nah, I'd eat them. In fact I'd have been tempted to eat them and soon as I'd bought them and probably would have done so

I agree with Vashti. If we are really interested, the last thing we do is suggest friends.
I know I've never wanted to be just friends with a guy I really liked anyway. It's the same as guys don't like being 'just friends' with a female they may really like.

A lot settle for that situation though and in the hopes it will progress to more, but it very rarely does.

Once a friend, usually always a friend

[medic_man]

I think she's one of those girls who's looking for a quick n easy night. I'm not that type of guy unfortunately.

So do you think then I should just cut all ties and remove her number and friends list from facebook? Bad thing now is I have to see her every day on the bus.

[xxazurexx]

I think she's one of those girls who's looking for a quick n easy night. I'm not that type of guy unfortunately.

So do you think then I should just cut all ties and remove her number and friends list from facebook? Bad thing now is I have to see her every day on the bus.

No I wouldn't. If you do, you are showing you are bothered.

If she wants friends, just keep her as a far distant friend. The type you know, but you don't go out of your way for.

I'm unsure as to why she'd want to send 'exciting' texts to a guy she considers just a friend.
Sounds like a bit of a slapper to me, lol

[medic_man]

Well she told me that shes not a slapper and that she prefers to know guys as friends first and then wait and see what happens.

[vashti]

Well she told me that shes not a slapper and that she prefers to know guys as friends first and then wait and see what happens.

trust me, if she was hot for you, she would NOT have said that. She might not have had sex with you right away, but she wouldn't risk sending you to the friend zone.

[medic_man]

Yea thats fair enough