SORRY SO LONG, NOT SURE HOW TO MAKE CLIFFS FOR THIS STORY, WOULD GREATLY APPRETIATE IF YOU READ THOUGH..
hey everyone, i'm 24 and ive had plenty of gf's in my life, but have never been in love until my last gf. i'm going to get some crap because the relationship only lasted 6weeks and alot of you will say that the love shouldn't have been there yet or whatever.
Anyway here is my story..
I met her at a friends party, got her number that night. and hung out with her every single day for 6weeks. after maybe 2weeks in. I knew i had found the one, she was everything i could have ever asked for. from looks to the best personality i could ask for. I was extra cautious not to come off like i was ubsest with this girl, and it's funny cause she would do that instead.
she would say things that would scare guys away if you didn't really like them alot.
she was very open, and held nothing back, she was very insecure which i actually liked, cause i am also insecure but didnt show it like she would.
she would text me all day long, about anything and everything, just showing she was thinking about me, alot of those text were simple "miss you" texts.. she would say things like "how is a guy like you eve rget with a girl like me" and "you got to be a little player" and "your way out of my league" this stuff was over the top, and but really helped my confidence, and showed that she really liked me.
well one day out of the blue she didnt text me for a full day, this is fine with me, just found it weird since it was the first no contact day since we met. i text her the next day asking what she was doing after work, she said", probably just going to bed, i couldn't sleep last night so i'mm pretty tired."
so again, no problem, however the next day, i text her and just said "hey babe, how you doing today" didn't get a reply. this was starting to get fishy, she always texted me.
the following day i asked if she wanted to hangout after work, and she said she had alot of laundry to do.
at this point i noticed i was the first one texting her the last 3 days. so i held off and waited for her to be the first one to text.
i waited FOUR days with no text, this was a huge indication that something is not right,
I gave in and texted her, just said "miss you" got nothing back.
waited 2 days and called her twice. no answer.
i then waited 7days and texted her, i wrote something like " hey so obviously your done with me, which really sucks cause i like you alot. but what bugs me the most, is you didnt even tell me what i did. everything was great one day, and you would tell me things like you miss me, and the next day you just completely drop me out of you life, the meanest thing you can do is just ignore me, please just let me know what went wrong, and i wont even reply back.
and once again, she wouldn't write back.
I have never been so depressed in my life, i have been sober for a year, as i train in MMA and cant afford a hangover, the last 2 weeks, i have been drunk nearly everynight, only so i could fall asleep. everyone tells me there is nothing that will help me get over it but time,, but its been 16days, and i'm in the worst state of mind since day one. i have lost all motivation in life, i havn't trained since, i havn't been outside, my house is a mess, my dishes are backed up, i have no clean clothes, i just feel lower than low..
at this point i am so ubsest with an answer, what did i do???
of course i have been dumped before, but in most cases it's simply because the girl doesnt have feelings like i did for them. this is a very weird case, since she seemed like she liked me more than i liked her.
and you guys will get on my case for this, but i feel like going to her work and standing by her truck tell she gets off to get my answer, i feel like i deserve to know what went wrong. creep move i know! but i need to know what happened.
any advise would be appretiated, what could have possibly went wrong?
usually after being dumped i would look for a quick rebound, and i actually did go on one date last weekend, but it didn't help at all, i have never had the feeling of finding the one, and i have no urge to to date any other girl besides her.. ever..
Cliffs:
one day gf would say she couldnt wait to see me again, the next day she drops me out of her life with no explination, wont answer phone calls/texts. trying to figure out what i did..