I get the feeling she just likes you as a friend, you know, she prefers the companionship you have to offer and that you are somebody she can get a little flirty with but ultimately I don't think she is romantically inclined towards you which is why she has stressed that she has come out of a messy relationship and that she is not ready to date anytime soon. Also, her suggestion about you finding a girlfriend at the club further proves this - she is making sure she doesn't lead you on and is carefully letting her intentions be made very clear.
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Love is like a merry-go-round: you get all dizzy, and then you feel sick!