Alaska

[blue]

I see myself moving to alaska in 2 years, its a huge carrer move for me, and i just want something different i want to experience different places and people and lifestyles, i dont need to live in the box i would like to travel and my job will allow me to do that

Well he dosent! For him it would be the complete oposite so he thinks & says. He does graphics and computer programming & stuff. So he does not see this as a great carrer move ( i also dont think that he has done his research). He is worried about this because i mention it alot so he know its on my mind.

I think that we can copromise with this and i mean we have 2 years and alot can change in two years. I would compromise for him & have agreed to staying put for 5 years which would be ok with me, but i also want to follow my dreams as much as he does. I told kenny we can cross that bridge when we get there...but then what? What do we do if even in two yrs he still dosent want to go? Has anyone ever been in this spot before?

[misombra]

you have two years to talk it out and think it over. a lot can happen in that time. chances are the closer it gets the more the two of you will decide on a compromise. if you guys are meant to be together then it'll happen.

[Illusional]

whoa.. from sunny florida to cold cold alaska..that is a huge difference in temperatures.

raverboy