ok let me organize:
Problem:
She said she isn't ready to be felt up or anything further, after 8 months of being with me. I'm an excellent boyfriend and a very good kisser--according to my ex's, so I know it isn't me because we're in love with each other. It disgusts me because I crave physical intimacy--but she said "not until i'm 16-18" which really ****s with me.
Reaction: Dump her.
Reasons To Dump Her:
(1)She's not ready to do what I want.
(2)The people I've spoken with think it's OK to dump somebody for Reason #1.
Reasons To Keep Her:
(1)We're in love.
(2)I think she's gorgeous, but to everybody else she's just OK so I don't have to worry about everybody wantin' to **** her.
(3)She supports with what what I do.
(4)Her mom loves me but her dad dislikes that she has a boyfriend.. heh.. still haven't met the guy (what a pussy) major A++ for me about the dad thing.
(5)We have millions of nicknames for each other--so cute~!
(6)We're really close--basically each other therapists.
(7)She's always telling me how hott and sexy and cute I am which is really motivating and encouraging.
(8)She's 5'2" GOD YES!
(9)Sometimes she does things just to mess with me, like when she has to go and her mom is right there she grabs my ass so nobody sees and it's like.. rar!
(10)I am not SEXUALLY attracted to her. Yes, I want to feel her up, but I don't have wet dreams about her or think about sex with her at all. I wouldn't want to have sex with her so it's really not what I'm looking for.
I don't know if the reasons are good enough for breaking up with her.. I just feel like shit and I need backup.