Things I like about my girl

[AdminOnline]

that guy self-pwned!! LOL !!!

[Mish]

In a way this relationship is a complete opposite to all of my other relationships. With my exs things would start great and then with time slowly deteriorate. I'd first feel drunk off of their beauty, then off the hot sex, then it'd just be nice to be together and then familiarity would set in and make things boring. I'd ask myself what's so good about doing the same things over and over again, little annoyances would become major irritations and at some point I'd feel great about giving up.

This girl, I almost passed her by. Honestly when I first met her I didn't think anything would ever happen between us. And then, as I continued to date the statues (looks pretty but stands like a statue and expects for things to automatically be done in her honour) and manipulators (looks pretty but bends reality to the gravity of her ego) I finally saw her genuine goodwill and gentle nature as completely superior to all of those empty shells. It was like an epiphany and ever since then I only see her in a better and a better light. Not a day goes by when I don't notice a new type of good about her. And as I notice this I realise the contrast of our relationship to all of the other relationships I've had that slipped from good to bad on a consistent scale, this one is consistently getting better and better. Where at this point in time I'd be thinking of my exit strategy because I couldn't stomach the girl anymore, I find myself more and more attracted to her. I don't know how or when (or if) this will end, but for now I really like where this is going and I feel really grateful to whatever force of nature that brought us together.

[Mish]

Last night was our anniversary. It's hard to believe it's already been a year, doesn't it? We went out with friends and they mentioned something along the lines of the speed of lightining of the passing time.

But apart from the fleeting moments, I couldn't help thinking about how great this year with her has been. In the past, with other girls this point in time has always been a great moment of celebration and reflection, but it was always clouded and of the variety of accepting and learning to live with their faults and learning new ways to compromise. In the past, some girls did release something bad in me. I know it's wrong to blame others for own mistakes, but at the same time there is action and reaction, sometimes you do and say the most inappropriate and wrong things when in a presence of someone who is wrong and inappropriate. I'm proud to say, none of these thoughts disturbed my concience on our anniversary. When I'm near her I still feel like I'm in a presence of an angel, the same way I felt one year ago. I thought that by this time, these honeymoon jitters would have been long gone, and yet they are stronger than ever.

She just moves something good inside of me and that good when it's out is capable of doing the greatest and most spectacular things. I sometimes laugh about how one year ago when I thought that girls like her only lived in fairytales and I should move on from these childish dreams, she came to me and proved that girls like her were real. How stupid do I feel now after one year together with her, that there was a time when I almost didn't notice her. What a lucky fool I've been.

[UntamedHeart]

That's absolutely beautiful... I think we all wish to have someone love us like that

[Mish]

I feel a bit overwhelmed right now. My gf came back from overseas yesterday and she brought back not one, not two, but three presents for me and one for my parents. I was stunned and pleasantly surprised, I really didn't expect it. Has anyone ever met someone so incredible?

[bluesummer]

I feel a bit overwhelmed right now. My gf came back from overseas yesterday and she brought back not one, not two, but three presents for me and one for my parents. I was stunned and pleasantly surprised, I really didn't expect it. Has anyone ever met someone so incredible?

Yes, my husband.

I find it funny that you said you almost passed her by Mish......I saw that pic you posted and she's quite pretty. What were you dating before, Victoria's Secret models?!?

Glad to see you so over the moon....and for a good amount of time now! It's usually a very good sign. Hope it continues on for you, you really deserve someone great.

[Junket]

I feel a bit overwhelmed right now. My gf came back from overseas yesterday and she brought back not one, not two, but three presents for me and one for my parents. I was stunned and pleasantly surprised, I really didn't expect it. Has anyone ever met someone so incredible?

I think quite a few of us have.

[Mish]

I find it funny that you said you almost passed her by Mish......I saw that pic you posted and she's quite pretty. What were you dating before, Victoria's Secret models?!?

A good point. Well, I never said she was ugly, she's very pretty, but she just didn't leave that "Want to rip the clothes off first time I saw her" kind of impression on me when I met her. Some of the other girls I dated at the time were prettier, but personality wise she was superior to all of them combined. She is very easy going, generous and supportive. Which is in a stark contrast to a lot of people out there who are competitve and who like to show that they are somehow in some way better than you and have an upper hand over you, either smarter or more moral or kinder etc. She completely lacks all of those irritating drives that drive me up the wall. Not to say that she's a pushover she's just very mature and approaches any kind of difference of opinion in a very constructive and consensus building way, which is never demeaning and always very respectful. She's planning to start a phd next year, so I think that a lot of her positives come from the fact that she is intelligent in all the right places.

Yeh, I'm very happy that after more than a year I can still say so many great things about her. Hopefully this will never change.