We've been acting civilized since the whole debacle and things have been going ok in the friends department. Things aren't great but I'm just trying to pretend like things are normal and we are just friends and never had a fling. There are no new guys in the picture. My ex and I have still been talking casually and recently we hung out one night with friends. It was good to see him and we got along great. I still felt there was a spark there. I wasn't sure how I felt anymore after liking someone new but once we were together there was something there for me. I think it was a little awkward for him. He didn't make a move on me. His friends spoke to him earlier in the day and told him not to try to hook up with me or anything. So I wonder if that deterred him or if he really didn't have the intention to or wouldn't have. He called me the next day and we talked for 45 mins just more intensely since you can't talk one on one very well in a group setting. He asked when I would be up there next and said he would plan on stopping and visiting me this summer. I don't know what his intentions are. When I texted him last he responded but didn't keep the conversation going like usually when we talked but maybe he was just busy that night and not wanting to be on the phone texting. I'm just playing it cool like we're just friends and I'm not going to ask him whats going on or tell him how I feel. I just want things to play out naturally and play it going. Waiting sucks though! Oh well I guess I can have fun in the mean time and play the field. I wish I was better at this!! I'm terrible at playing the field and flirting and casually dating.