Hi,
I just have basically broken up with my boyfriend, we were together just over a year and it was wonderful. I had a previous marriage that was horrible and abusive. There is times when I was scared what we had would end, and I'd be insecure about us, id say probably three times in a year. He hated that, says I should be completely confident always about us, and I said why cant you just give me the reassurance I need? He says no its not his problem. He says I need councelling for this, or we are over. He said I am his soulmate and he wants to marry me. Seems to me if i am his soulmate he could help me through these things, but he has no interest. I realize its his relationship and he can have whatever demands he wants, I just am curious if anyone believes if he truly loved me hed work through these things with me, not force me into councelling (which I am not saying is a bad idea, but to threaten to leave me if I dont go?) .
Any thoughts appreciated.
by the way he has many flaws that i find hard to deal with , that I deal with beause I love him he is controlling and jealous, but I deal with it.