f*cked up first and second kiss, pls help

[pks77]

Hi,
I just ****ed up a second kiss, need some advise.

Its all started over month ago, i was in local club celebrating friend birthday. I saw a girl there invited her for a drink etc etc......
When a club was closing and we were leaving i tryed to kiss her. I was realy confident ,but pretty drunk too and i somehow missed her ;; lol; It was one big ****ed up kiss, but i was too drunk i haved fun. not a big problem...

Ok ; last week i haved again heavy drinking session with my friends and i meet her there. She was realy into me, ended in small bar across street. I was braindead, almost totaly out of control, i startet kissing her ,she was IN for it. But i was feeling that it didnk working well. After few attemps she told me that i dont need to eat her, but i was too drunk to think or to do something else.It didnt worked well, we got drink after and thats last thing i remember........

Next day i realized that i realy dont know how to kiss a girl, most of my experience with girls are with hookers, or when i was "dating" over 40 years old women ( im 21), in that case i was one trying not to get eat, even when i started kissing she was in control and it was pretty wild . Thats definitly not a way for first time kiss....

Im not much interested in dating or anything like that. But still i cannt live with a fear i have to do it again next time i meet her, hopefuly better. But "third kiss" will be now much more under pressure ; not a best thing

Its cannot be that hard, yep ? Some advice how to kiss her next time ?

thank you

btw, sry for my english

[SirWagginston]

It could be worse. One time, while trying to put my arm around my ex, she suddenly shifted forward and I accidentally elbowed her in the head.

[Jas_mine]

Try not being majorly drunk, that might help what with alcohol reducing coordination and that!

[BubbleFreak]

It could be worse. One time, while trying to put my arm around my ex, she suddenly shifted forward and I accidentally elbowed her in the head.

LOL in hindsight that must be so funny but at the time gawd that's so terribile let's not rub it in even more

pks77, I totally agree with Jas_mine that maybe you shouldn't be wasted next time. You'll forget any advice people give you on here anyway.

[pks77]

ok, problem solved
Its definitly helps not to get drunk ;;;;;;
thx all

[Jas_mine]

Third time lucky eh!

[corey1985]

I'd hold off on the liquor.

[90sMusicKid]

Hi,
I just ****ed up a second kiss, need some advise.

Its all started over month ago, i was in local club celebrating friend birthday. I saw a girl there invited her for a drink etc etc......
When a club was closing and we were leaving i tryed to kiss her. I was realy confident ,but pretty drunk too and i somehow missed her ;; lol; It was one big ****ed up kiss, but i was too drunk i haved fun. not a big problem...

Ok ; last week i haved again heavy drinking session with my friends and i meet her there. She was realy into me, ended in small bar across street. I was braindead, almost totaly out of control, i startet kissing her ,she was IN for it. But i was feeling that it didnk working well. After few attemps she told me that i dont need to eat her, but i was too drunk to think or to do something else.It didnt worked well, we got drink after and thats last thing i remember........

Next day i realized that i realy dont know how to kiss a girl, most of my experience with girls are with hookers, or when i was "dating" over 40 years old women ( im 21), in that case i was one trying not to get eat, even when i started kissing she was in control and it was pretty wild . Thats definitly not a way for first time kiss....

Im not much interested in dating or anything like that. But still i cannt live with a fear i have to do it again next time i meet her, hopefuly better. But "third kiss" will be now much more under pressure ; not a best thing

Its cannot be that hard, yep ? Some advice how to kiss her next time ?

thank you

btw, sry for my english

I highlighted your problem..which should be pretty obvious..

[Taragirlie21]

Going with the others, hold off on the alchohol, lol, try going slower and with someone you care about too

[DominicPaolo]

Yep. Cut back on the alcohol and stay calm when trying to kiss a girl.