I need advice from a female on this one.
If you have read about my situation, and I know its long and complicated, I need to know about what just happened. I will explain.
The last 4 weeks have been just a little better. Her son had a surgery the first week of august so i called her one night to see how he was feeling. She answered and we spoke for about 10 minutes. I left off saying call me and she said ok, then she said you call me. I texted her just a couple of times asking how her weekend was and she replied right away saying good and asking me about mine. I kept it brief. Then she started to text me when she left work (she leaves at 2 I leave at 5), and complaining how the other girls at work are not too friendly with her. She did did twice in a week, so i just told her to ignore them. Then I asked her if she would like to get together for lunch or dinner one day. She replied that dinner would be cool. I told her to let me know when was good for her and she said how about next friday. I was happy because i thought she would just say ok i will let you know, but she actually gave me an exact day, so this was cool. The week went by and we made some small talk at work, nothing major tho. Then the day before our dinner plans I approached her in person and asked if she still could make it tomorrow. She said yes she can. She asked me what time, I said 7 and she said how about 8. I said cool. So things seemed good.
The day of our dinner plans she texted me around 5 saying her sitter cancelled because the sitters daughter was sick. I said no problem, that sux. She said I know, if anything we can meet up another time. I said ok no problem. Then i asked her how her kids were and said good night.
I am confused because i dont know if she was brushing me off. I know she has a hard time getting sitters, even when we were together she had a difficult time getting a sitter. Also, why did she change the time from 7 to 8 if she had no intentions on going. But you never know.
What do you think? Do you think it was a brush off?