Human Trash

[IndiReloaded]

Gin and tonic w/lime, myself. That might count as trashy. Not sure.

[dewilliams2]

@ indi...I tried pming you but couldn't...don't know if you inbox is full or what.

[IndiReloaded]

I'm selective. Try again.

[Sonrisa]

has anyone noticed how popular Indi has been lately? seriously.

I just want to say that I have learned a lot from her lately. she may not even realize how much. she was able to change me drastically a year ago in a very aggressive and mean manner, but lately she has been nothing but nice in helping me better myself. ah, i am such a loser for being so emotional. i guess some people do need to be abused before they can get something through their head, i am a great example of it.

[LailaK]

I cannot say I've had the same experience.

[Lipp]

has anyone noticed how popular Indi has been lately? seriously.

I just want to say that I have learned a lot from her lately. she may not even realize how much. she was able to change me drastically a year ago in a very aggressive and mean manner, but lately she has been nothing but nice in helping me better myself. ah, i am such a loser for being so emotional. i guess some people do need to be abused before they can get something through their head, i am a great example of it.

Do you consider yourself to be a regular now?

[Petit Papillon]

Do you consider yourself to be a regular now?

of course she is, only her second nickname is here over a year... And well , she's in that secret Blow Job group here :p

[Lipp]

I know, just recall when she was having a go at feeling abused by the "regulars" as a "newcomer" =P

[Petit Papillon]

I don't remember that Sonrisa, you were a whiner ?

[Junket]

Indig was such a whiner.

She irritated the hell out of me and gave me a boner at the same time.

Probably the only reason why I didn't ban her.

[misombra]

aw i can feel the love right now.

[Sonrisa]

of course she is, only her second nickname is here over a year... And well , she's in that secret Blow Job group here :p

just to elaborate, there's a group of chosen ladies who give blow jobs to mods. i am honored to be one of them.

[Sonrisa]

I cannot say I've had the same experience.

that is exactly how we started. i have deleted my old threads, but we were pretty mean to each other in those days. i even resorted to cussing and calling her names. well, it takes time for one to mature and to admit inferiority.

[Junket]

just to elaborate, there's a group of chosen ladies who give blow jobs to mods. i am honored to be one of them.

If this were true I'd never had given up modship.

[Incognito]

Well, Williams. I will invite you to consider that resorting to a spanking will only arise b/c a parent has lost control of the situation. I will further tell you directly that my son has never been spanked and he seems to be quite a reasonable lad. He's in his preteens now, so we'll see what comes out in the wash.

While I don't consider a paddling as evil as some things a parent can do (even without beating them), I do see it as on that slippery slope. Hitting your child with an object, such as a belt, would qualify as abuse.
I remember once my son was deliberately antagonizing me by touching something I had explicitly asked him not to. Of course, it was my fault for not giving him something to sufficiently engage him. Still, I had asked him not to touch and he did anyway.

I tackled him and tickled him until he begged for mercy. He was startled, I daresay as much as a spanking would have startled him. He got the same message but at the same time was reassured of my love and care for him. I could have made it a negative learning experience, I was certainly frustrated enough, but I didn't.

You are only limited by your imagination in solving these kinds of problems. Beware of reaching for the lowest common solution simply b/c its the easiest.

I remember way back in high school this debate came up, although it wasn't nearly as heated and there weren't insults flying everywhere. Anyway, my teacher said something that made a lot of sense that I took to heart. He said, "I am sure to not hit my children with my hand, because I don't want them to fear me. They usually get the wooden spoon, and fear IT rather than me". It made a lot of sense and still makes a lot of sense to me. Go ahead and chew on my asshole like you have been thusfar. I'll also point out that unless your son was simply playing by repeatedly disobeying you (laughing while doing it) and you tickled him rather than addressing his disobedience that something is wrong there.