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    really sucks

    You know I'm not much looking for any advice as much as I just wanta bitch.

    Me and my gf are done. We had some rough times and had been on and off for years over a series of things. I thought we had really hit a point where we had gotten past them but I made a surprise visit to her apartment this evening and found her with another guy...and my dumbass even brought flowers and dinner.

    I don't actually think I have ever been hurt quite this bad in my entire life. I've been bit by a bear and did not cry a single tear but I have been cryin like a bitch for a good 15 minutes now. I truly loved her. Just being around her made me happy. But she hurt me more than I think anybody could.

    The thing is that I had my suspicions but I ignored them cause I didn't want to believe she would do that to me.

    I'm gonna get really drunk now.
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    Wow that sucks... Is your gf having this little baby?

    Don't be insulted, but she's some promiscuos girl, i'm sorry for her baby and i'm wondering, when will she stop to look for a daddy for this child. This guy is already her 3rd bf since she got pregnant and her baby is like what, 11 months old if i remember good. She's starting really well...


    I would call her totally different ,but you probably still would defend her ,as it's pretty fresh.
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    that's super heavy. You sounded pretty in love with her. That really sucks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Petit Papillon View Post
    Wow that sucks... Is your gf having this little baby?

    Don't be insulted, but she's some promiscuos girl, i'm sorry for her baby and i'm wondering, when will she stop to look for a daddy for this child. This guy is already her 3rd bf since she got pregnant and her baby is like what, 11 months old if i remember good. She's starting really well...


    I would call her totally different ,but you probably still would defend her ,as it's pretty fresh.
    Honestly I do want to defend her but at the same time you are totally right. She doesn't deserve the defense. I was never nothing but good to her. Worst thing we ever fought about or had troubles with is that I'm arrogant and don't like her friends. They are half retarded though. They really are not very intelligent at all. That was the worst thing I ever did.

    Id have done anything for her and I usually did.

    I mean the sex was great but it wasn't about the sex. I loved her so much she could have been a voice in my head and I would have been in love with her. But obviously in terms of sex I wasn't enough for her....worst part is the guy I caught her with is a mutual friend....or was a friend.
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    See, she's just still a kid, it's sad tho cause she's a mother now, but she's a little baby. Instead of becoming stable in her life, she chose to be immature stupid girl that thinks just about her self and having fun. If you thought her friends were retarded - maybe they were, sex wasn't perfect - it's perfect just in porno movies. What she's looking for, seems like, is fun-hence this mutual friend that probably is better in bed or something. What she didn't see is that you were a great guy for her AND her baby - which is the most important thing. Tell her she has some serious growing up to do, wish her good luck and move on. Next few months are going to be bad ,but seems like it's better if you build your future with a woman that truly deserves you.
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    Sorry dewilliams...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Petit Papillon View Post
    See, she's just still a kid, it's sad tho cause she's a mother now, but she's a little baby. Instead of becoming stable in her life, she chose to be immature stupid girl that thinks just about her self and having fun. If you thought her friends were retarded - maybe they were, sex wasn't perfect - it's perfect just in porno movies. What she's looking for, seems like, is fun-hence this mutual friend that probably is better in bed or something. What she didn't see is that you were a great guy for her AND her baby - which is the most important thing. Tell her she has some serious growing up to do, wish her good luck and move on. Next few months are going to be bad ,but seems like it's better if you build your future with a woman that truly deserves you.
    Thats another thing. Ari wasn't mine but I am really going to miss her. I loved watching her grow up...it was amazing. She had just started talking.
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    Yeah, this will probably suck more than the break up itself, but this is life... Some mothers are stupid and this baby is going to miss a super daddy like you. Why did she break up with the baby's father and when did she do it? Also, how long has she wait after the break up,before she started to date you?
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    she deserves a punch in the face!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Petit Papillon View Post
    Yeah, this will probably suck more than the break up itself, but this is life... Some mothers are stupid and this baby is going to miss a super daddy like you. Why did she break up with the baby's father and when did she do it? Also, how long has she wait after the break up,before she started to date you?
    She left him because he was emotionally and physically abusive....I know the guy...he is an ass. She got pregnant before leaving him and I was seeing her when she was pregnant....so obviously it was more than sex for me because I pursued a pregnant woman and that really isn't what I am into. After the baby she was really concerned about her body and I told her she was beautiful and I kissed every inch of her even though she was kinda fat. She has pretty much lost all the weight now and I guess she wants to show her new body off to some new people.
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    See? She's a total bitch! She used you ,when she was fat and ugly and you were the only guy that wanted her and her fetus , now she's hot again and can have everyone she wants. She's a cold bitch and immature mother. Be glad she's not a mother of your child.
    Sucks for her baby, but he's not the first and not the last stupid mother in this world.
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    Well I mean I don't think I'm a bad looking guy....here is a pic of us...its not the best cause its kinda dark and its on a cell phone but I don't feel like looking up any of my other pics of us right now. But I don't think she was to far out of my league. This is quite recent as well.



    Okay apparently it won't post...i don't feel like fighting it right now...its in my album on here.
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    It's whatever your or her looks.I mean, who would want a pregnant girl? You did, plus you were nice and everything . Now she doesn't need you anymore, she can finally have a real choice, you know what i mean?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Petit Papillon View Post
    It's whatever your or her looks.I mean, who would want a pregnant girl? You did, plus you were nice and everything . Now she doesn't need you anymore, she can finally have a real choice, you know what i mean?
    Yea I know what you mean...I appreciate it PP...I just don't understand it. I didn't do anything wrong. And she did cry, she seemed very upset about it but that isn't something I can forgive.

    I was very calm, I didn't yell or curse. I simply told her I would be back tomorrow to get my stuff from her place and drop off her stuff when she was gone and while I was there I would leave my key and I would appriciate if she would leave my key on the counter so I could get it back...then I told her it would be a good idea if she would lose my number.
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    Good start Will.Let's be honest, you're not a fan of cheaters, right? So there's no way you should forgive her - she's not even your wife so there's no need for a second thought. Second, I'll repeat, for God's sake!! She's a mother,she's a young mother , she should have thought about it before she invited this dude at her house! Having a baby is not equal to having a dog or something. It's a big responsability, also in dating field. She failed, maybe she won't with her next partner, but this fail shows how thoughtless mother she is. She can't stay faithful to one guy for a longer time? How is her child going to be raised?Having a new daddy each year or two? Now, would you like a woman like this to be a mother of yo own children? Be glad she showed her true colors so fast. It would be a shame to lose money for wedding and all just to find out that your wife is a ho' .
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