REALLY confused...

[MrAdventure]

I am on a 6 month deployment right now and I have been away from my Fiance for about three weeks now. She has been wonderful about it. She is excited about getting married and having children with me when I come home. Although, recently in one of our chats she said something that scared me:

Me: Are you ok hunny?
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Her: I'm okay, babe. I'm just going through a faze. It will pass
Me: What kind of faze?
Her: Just an insecure one, or something. It's like I don't know what to say to you. It hurts
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Me: What are you insecure about ?
Her: I don't know where this could be stemming from

It's like out of no where, I don't even know if I can call you baby
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I think it's just from yesterday, and showing you a weakness yesterday. I felt so strong before with us, so confident. It will pass.
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She also said that sometimes she feels like out of nowhere she does not know me at all…

I did not talk to her for about half a day after that conversation because I did not want to say anything out of emotion. After a while she emailed me, texted me and told me that she had been crying hysterically and going through a "catharsis" all day because she felt so bad for making me feel like she was doubting "us". I told her never to f*** say anything like that unless you mean it. I may have over reacted but I thought she was breaking up with me or something. As of now she is so lovey dovey with me. Everything is fine now and we are still talking about marriage and having children but I just am really confused as to why she would say that. Does anybody have experience with this?

[sunnybunny8212]

she probably just misses you, and got scared...
i think she just started thinking about to many things at once, and over reacted in her head.

im sure her intentions for you, and your relationship are great and strong,
she probably just got nervous because you're gone :]

<3

[MrAdventure]

im sure her intentions for you, and your relationship are great and strong,
she probably just got nervous because you're gone :]

<3

I like the way that you put that!

How can I make her feel more secure about me?