I'm having sex with an older married woman... adivce please?

[tommy.shann]

Same here. My mam and dad were both cheating on each other and when my dad found out, well there was hell to pay and lets just say that he beat her up right in front of us kids (I was 6) and half of her hair covered the living room carpet. Even at six years old, I knew pretty much what was going on and why they would always fight.
This is why I have zero tolerance for cheaters and abusers....as well as knowing it's 'morally' wrong also.

Jesus - That's F'd up.

Anyway, I called her... got her to talk to me for 10 minutes...she was offended when I asked her if her husband would try to physically harm either of us if he found out. She said- "God, do you think I would do this if I thought he would shoot me or you....and do you really think I would marry and have kids with a man that violent... he'd be hurt, but it's complicated... it really is..trust me..."

[tommy.shann]

Then she went on to say.... "could we not make this more complicated than it has to be....i don't want you to ffel uncomfortable, if you don't want to do this any more it's fine... the thing is i like you, i know you like me..it's just sex... and yes, i guess im a little messed up... cheating is not the best answer, but im horny, what could i say... you are a young hot stud and taht turns me on... i am a mature horny mom and that's what turns you on...it's pretty simple if we want it to be.... i promise you, i will handle my husband and my relatioship..if you could handle keeping your mouth shut, there will be no issues"

[vashti]

Really? I apologize if I offended you. I think its great for a woman of t hat age to still be attractive, but I think actually being,"hey Im a MILF" is the equivalent of saying ,"Hey I'm a middle aged slut" I think you might have taken that out of context Vashti. If you still disagree with me, I apologize, but that is just my opinion on the matter. I just believe that sure men might like to refer to women as MILFS but women who refer to themselves as that have issues.

Women of ALL ages want to be attractive to handsome young men. Do you really think you will wake up one day and just not care anymore? please. If you really think that, you must be very young.

[Kelsey777]

[QUOTE=tommy.shann;593529]Then she went on to say.... "could we not make this more complicated than it has to be....i don't want you to ffel uncomfortable, if you don't want to do this any more it's fine... the thing is i like you, i know you like me..it's just sex... and yes, i guess im a little messed up... cheating is not the best answer, but im horny, what could i say... you are a young hot stud and taht turns me on... i am a mature horny mom and that's what turns you on...it's pretty simple if we want it to be.... i promise you, i will handle my husband and my relatioship..if you could handle keeping your mouth shut, there will be no issues"[/QUOTE

Actually, I think I made it clear that that is not what I think at all. I have some qualms with the term, "Milf," and women who use it to describe themselves. Women of all ages should love themselves and find themselves attractive. I just believe no respectable woman would be like hey Im cool because I'm a MILF. After all, what does MILF stand for, "MOM I like To F*ck." What do you think of when you hear MILF, why a porn in which younger males ejaculate on their stomachs. It is associated with sex, not feeling attractive. I understand all women have needs, and all women should want to be attractive. But come on, "Hey Im A MILF". That sounds pretty slutty to me.
I don't think you have been reading my posts closely enough, Vashti. And I don't think you have read the posts by the thread's creator well either. I think if you have, there wouldn't be such a misinterpretation.
This thread entails a man who is sleeping with a married woman who has children, and refers even to herself as a MILF. If you really think think that I have a narrow mind on female sexuality on all ages, then you definitely have not read my posts thoroughly. I recall posting in an earlier post that the 30's is scientifically supported to be the sexual prime of a woman. If someone told me my Mother was a MILF when I was younger, why I would have punched them in the face. However, if they said my mother is very attractive, I would say thank you. I believe there is something wrong with a woman who calls herself a milf due to the perverse connotation of the term. That is my opinion. Now on, before you jump to defense Vashti, I think you should read my posts thoroughly.
After all, I don't see anyone else having a problem with what I said.
I respect your opinion, but I think you have interpreted my posts incorrectly.

[Kelsey777]

Please excuse the quote from you above Tommy. That was mean to be a quote of Vashti. I'm new using this, sorry.

[Asip4u]

Kelsey, first you said that women like that have issues..Why is that? Because older women don't get horny and shouldn't think of themselves as hot? You also said that they are middle-aged sluts which just doesn't make any sense. That would mean they're doing one guy after another and that's just you using examples from porn which is pretty bad. Especially when they get older, women like to still feel attractive so if someone tells them that they are hot MILFS why should they not be happy about that? Why should they not go and have some fun especially if they are not attached to anyone else?

[xxazurexx]

I've never referred to myself as a MILF.....but have been called a MILF before.

Now then, I have to admit to being some what flattered by it, but these young lads who say it stand nooooo hope in hell in ever getting near me, lol.

I've never gone in for younger guys.

[Charlie Boy II]

haha this thread is classic!! so many great lines.

"if your employer finds out you can forget about a good reference,"

"her husband is my employer,"

LMFAO

I find this very, very amusing. Especially the "mommy is horny today," I don't know if that would turn me on. It'd depend on how she pulled it off.

[loudrims_inc]

older woman are sooo darn sexy!

[Charlie Boy II]

And you people saying this guy is going to get sued are morons. Sued for what exactly?

[SirWagginston]

This MILF-hate going on in this thread is disappointing. I'm not into MILFs, per say, but I am really into cougars, and they often happen to be MILFs. I think the detractors are jealous. These women are in charge of their sexuality, and aren't afraid to take what they want. That's attractive, and beneficial for us guys who are tired of dumb games. I think some females are finding that threatening because it reduces the likelihood that we will bend over backwards to get with them.

It would be better to find a single MILF, instead, though. Although I've come close to banging (but didn't) a married woman, before, her marriage was undeniably an open one.

[girl68]

And you people saying this guy is going to get sued are morons. Sued for what exactly?

breaking up marriages, yes people can get sued for this. Do I think it's stupid sure, but I'm not a moron for saying it, because there are existing cases of exactly this.

[Charlie Boy II]

I would be interested to see the law they're using to to sue people for braking up a marriage. Could you point me in the direction of a few cases?

[Asip4u]

I would be interested to see the law they're using to to sue people for braking up a marriage. Could you point me in the direction of a few cases?

As indi pointed out already, it probably wouldn't stand up in court but i guess it depends on how good of a case your lawyer can present. In North America you can sue for pretty much anything. BTW, calling girl a moron for having an opinion..not cool at all.

[Charlie Boy II]

NO it doesn't matter "how good a case a lawyer can present", if you have no basis in law for your claim. For example, if someone runs up the back of you while you're driving, then you can sue them under the tort/law of Negligence.

So, I'll ask again, if someone f-cks your wife, what law will you sue them under? And if this has been done, please point me to some cases.