My girlfriend is thick. She would probably be moved to tears if she heard me use that word to describe her. For me I'm all about it. She thinks shes fat. I think she's perfect.
I was hoping as she saw my adoration for her she would relax into feeling sexy around me but the issue is not budging.(e.g.) I want her to sit on my lap and put my arms around her but she always says no and feels justified in doing so. I try to be understanding and respect her but sometimes I just want to say , "Snap the *$#@ out of it! Your sexy. Your beautiful. Now can we PLEASE just have a normal relationship???"
She also has an issue with being gone down on. She thinks her female equipment is "Gross" and getting her to let me go down on her is like working out a middle east peace treaty.
I don't know what to do. I feel like my enthusiasm for her has so many restrictions that it just kills a natural free flowing in the moment build up. Like everything is going great and then the breaks get slammed on because I crossed some body insecurity issue she has.
I need help. Please and thank you!