No, never, it's a pretty big deal for me. I'll get to see spots like Pipe and Waimea I've been drooling over in surfing magazines and videos since my teens.
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
Are those on Maui or Kauai? or another island?
Will you be surfing there? (scary!)
Last edited by vashti; 06-06-10 at 09:33 PM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I feel like I'm in a funk.
Went to bed exhausted, and my g/f tried to entice me into sex.
I don't usually reject, and in fact I'll rally, but I really wasn't feeling it last night, and went to sleep feeling like some kind of asshole, because she just put her back to me to sleep.
I woke up still feeling resentful.
Also, in general, I just haven't been that interested in sex.
Eventually we'll get around to it, and it'll be good, though sometimes short because I'm pent up, and then after that, I'll have no interest in sex again for a few days up to over a week.
Sometimes I wonder if the age difference is bigger than I initially anticipated.
I probably shouldn't be thinking about any of these things right now, because I can't even think of a single thing to do that I would find enjoyable.
It's miserable outside, I have no friends, cringe at the prospect of hanging out with our acquaintances, and I can't even think of a videogame to play.
Poor Fras, you need some Ice creams and Cyndi Lauper !!
Cheer up!!
I wazzzz here![]()
Yeah, Fras. You big girl you.
And your girl didn't want to offer you a feel good BJ when she sensed you were feeling out of it? Or did she assume that you were withholding to spite her or something? Hence her turning her back to you.
Last edited by lahnnabell; 07-06-10 at 05:18 AM.
I don't know, I'm not gonna ask her.
On the north shore of Oahu. I've been there in December. Scary as hell. I don't surf beyond an easy paddle on 2 ft waves, mind. In fact, I think I'm back again this Dec for a conference.
The 8-year olds surfing the monsters are impressive, tho. You'll enjoy it, CB.
BTW, you'll have to visit during your summer tho. If you go during your winter (our summer), the north shore of Oahu is like a pond.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
This is why we charter our own boat. Plus, you get to see places the big ship cruisers can't.
But some people really enjoy the cruise vacation. Its like a floating hotel with entertainment, dancing, food prepared for you... plus nice variety of sights and beaches. My parents love them. They are afraid of going offshore in a sailboat, even the relatively large ones we charter, so I can relate to Vash's comment about doing it to spend time with the rest of the family.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
I think I do.
I've been working what feels like non-stop for the past year.
Any time off I had for Christmas has been eclipsed by that month of straight 12-hour work.
I don't know how to not work, I'm not salaried, I get paid by the hour, any day off is money I'm not making.
I have a lot of difficulty coming to terms with that.
Finally had to break down and "tell on" my bf's daughter to him at dinner tonight. I give up, she just will not mind me anymore, I feel she's testing me. There has just been one too many incidents where she does the opposite of what I ask her, argues with me, or flat out lies. The final straw came in the ladies room of the restaurant we were having dinner at tonight. She washed and dried her hands like a normal kid then had to go and try to show off to her sister and pump the soap dispenser letting soap wastefully and messily (I don't know if those are words) fall all over the sink.
He regulated that ass and she apologized. She was pissy with me for about 2 minutes but was huggy and lovey dovey when I left tonight.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
Wide awake. Need to be somewhere in five hours. Won't be able to sleep again for another 23 hours. Crap on a cracker. Guess I'll have an early breakfast and lots and lots of coffee and Red Bull today.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein
haha, no, see the preceding page.
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.