Originally Posted by
lahnnabell
I'd actually view putting the time and effort into a BJ as more intimate than letting some guy climb on top of me. BJs can take a lot more effort, depending on the guy's size, his personal preferences, etc. Any goon can figure out how to make his penis move in and out of a vagina. In fact, that's ALL a lot of guys learn.
Anytime I've hooked up with a guy, I've gone into the venture with the knowledge that I will most likely not get anything out of it. The sole purpose of hooking up with a guy for me is the ego boost of feeling desired. I don't get my rocks off simply because some guy's got his d*ck in me. He's gotta work for it.
Throwing out sexual favors so easily lowers the value of the overall act for me. Sexual contact is special to me, and a select few will get a taste of it. The more you give away a product for free, the lower the value drops. Hard to say since everyone's values differ. However, I noticed CB, that you said this friend needed to be sexually attractive. If you had a not-so-hot female friend who offered you the same deal, you'd say "No"?
If it was a really close friend, it's not like she'd be blowing guys she met at bars, she'd be blowing a close friend to make him feel better and get him through a tough patch. That's completely different. It's quite admirable really.
And yes, she would have to be sexually attractive Lanah, otherwise the whole thing would be a bit off-puting.
Anyway, I don't have a close female friend offering to blow me, with no strings, so this is all theoretical. More's the pity.
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