Starving

[nyman]

Hey guys,
I dont really have a problem, but i guess its just a general problem. I am a sophmore in college and have never been in a relationship. The only word that comes to mind is starving, i am starving for a relationship. It isnt like i am a bad looking guy. In fact, im told im very handsome, and i have an excellent personality. My problem is not meeting girls, its meeting a girl and staying clear of the friend zone, i have trouble taking it to the next step. I see some of my friends who are in a relationship and it kills me. They complain and complain but i just look at them and say you should feel lucky. I want that sense of companionship, that sense that you have someone to go out with. It isnt even a sexual thing, because i hook up lots, i just want someone to be there for me, and someone i could be there for. Oh well, i guess ill keep trying

[andrew91]

Yeah, dont be desperate, becuase then you are most likel;y gonna get together with the first girl who loves you, and you are gonna kiss her ass, and she wont repsect you for that

[Fishy]

get confident or give up.

[sfalexi]

From the GET GO make sure she understands that you're interested in a relationship and not being just friends. Don't "hang out" but rather ASK HER OUT. When you're hanging out, ask questions to find out about her dating situation and drop hints that you want to be considered a future boyfriend. Otherwise they may think you're just a 'really sweet guy'.

Also, if they say that they really want to be friends but nothing more, it sucks, but you have to pretty much end it there. Cause it'll just end up hurting you when you hang out and keep wondering WHY you're just friends.

Just say (politely) "I appreciate it, but to be honest I'm looking more for a relationship."

Rod Steele