We've been dating for about a year. Officially in a relationship for 3 months.
We argued and broke up last thursday.
I made a mistake by sending millions of text messages and miss calls to him the first 3 days of our break up.
I was calmer on tuesday and decided to call him.
I apologize and all and he said he'll think about it.
I called him yesterday and at first he said 'okay' to ... start things slowly again.
But after a few hours he sent a text message saying he think about what he wants and he really don't think he wants to get back together. He said he doesn't wanna change his decision and let's just be friends. When I asked him why, he said he's not sure but he thinks that he wanna fully commit himself to himself to improve his studies and other aspects in order to lighten his parent's burden. "And maybe I wanna move on too I guess".
I know I should too. But I wanna know if it's possible to be together again. I stopped being emotional about it (eventhough I'm all broken inside) but I talked to him as if nothing happened; asking him to study hard and stuff.
But all I wanna know is, is it even possible to get back together when things like this happens? What if I move on and live my life to the fullest; will he look back at me? I'm not being desperate. It's just I think he IS that guy. I just wanna know if it's even possible to start off with.