Help on date, how to avoid? - inexperience member here

[so-lost]

Hi need some advice here. Tonight I'm going on a second date with a guy. I feel he is kind of pushy???

I don't want any awkward situation.

Last week after movie and dinner, as we were on escalator going to the parking lot, he was standing one step higher than me, behind me and he somehow tucked is head onto my left shoulder by my left ear and like carressing.....that time was first date.

I am worry he is gonna do the same tonight. Many times he tries to have me go over his place for dVD or come over my place for DVD and I said no, after I posted that story here last week and got your support...thanks!

I just try to avoid any intimacy with a new date, whom I don't know him well.

How shall I react? I don't want to look rude as well.

[tomatoes]

Tell him you're not comfortable with it?

[so-lost]

But when he starts tucking in his face..should I push him or what?

[tomatoes]

I think if you try to move away a little like raising your shoulder and such he should get the idea. Then just smile at him?

If he doesn't get it; it's either he's dumb or desperate? =/

[bloodtippedrose]

put one finger on his forehead and push him off

[VincenzoG91]

Are you sure you like this guy? I bet he expects to have sex on the third date.