Please help, i have a gf but am in love with someone else

[Jacob8008135]

I have a gf, lets call her C, and have been with her for almost 2 months now.

However about 14 months ago, me and another girl, let’s call this one L, got really close. Shortly afterwards another guy, from her school, asked L out. She guiltily said yes and has been with him ever since. They are fine together but L is still really flirtacious with me. For instance she keeps telling me things like her bf is going to a 6th form college that is far away next year and we are going to the same one. And i keep dreaming about her. My gf is in the year below and so won’t be going at the same time as me, but she lives locally.

My relationship with C started because she was very open and wanted a relationship, i did already like her and thought it might develop into something more. But for me its stalled and the point is that i dont want to hurt her feelings.

I am happy with C but I still love L. What should I do?

[Kaius]

You guys are just playing young people games. You don't have a real relationship.
2 months of dating is nothing.... why would you even consider staying if you have feelings for someone else?
Just don't take things so seriously. It's not like you are gonna marry either of these girls.

[Gigabitch]

I think being with someone when you're in love with someone else is wrong. I also think L is a tease.

[girl68]

You will hurt C no matter what you do. She will either find out and be hurt, or you'll dump her and she'll be hurt. Or you'll stay with her for a long, long time- then dump her hurting her a helluva lot more.

[Ashurii]

Don't stay with someone when you have feelings for someone else. It isn't fair to them.

[roy_delene]

You should stay with the one you like the most and end it with the other girl. Don't lead her on or play with her feelings. Be honest and do the right thing.