hi

[trisha]

Never been able to post for a very long time. But well, it goes like this.

for 5 years, I'm always meeting the wrong guys cause maybe I dont have the capability to be the right girl cause I'm afraid to commit. So guys, my question is , what's your description of a right girl? so I could practice being one..LOL

[Cloud206]

There is no such thing as perfect woman.And no man in his right mind wants a perfect woman cause it would become boring as some point.The flaws in someone are mostly just as important as the good qualities.So do not torture yourself trying to be someone you are not.

[Illusional]

why can't you commit?


raverboy

[irrelevant_89]

If you try to be someone you're not and play the "perfect girl" act, you might actually land an awesome guy, but eventually the real you will come out, and then either he loves the real you or there's serious heartbreak. So be honest with yourself and the others. My philosophy at least. Although you don't wanna be too open about your shortcomings too soon and drive everyone away - I do that a lot too.

What do you think are your "flaws"? The important thing is to decide which ones can be corrected and which ones are just part of who you are, and as such, not really flaws.

[trisha]

@illusional

commitment scares me,in the past commitment was the reason why I almost became crazy when the person I loved chose to let go of our commitment for each other.

[roy_delene]

its all in the eye of the beholder I suppose. To some one you are the "right" girl its just a matter of finding the person. In the mean time don't be too hard on yourself