A little problem

[Twinklez]

I just started dating a guy, he's got a great personality, he makes me laugh, you know all the stuff great guys do that makes a girl go gaga over him.

Last night we had sex for the first time and he's a little smaller than I'm used to. The intimacy was great, there is lots of passion there, the feelings aren't the problem. I guess what I'm trying to say is, does anyone have any advice on how to make penetrative sex more pleasurable when things are a little incompatible?

[erik]

just how small is he?

[roy_delene]

I guess date taller guys,I dunno.

[Kaius]

Too thin or too short? There are ways to penetrate deeper if it's too short. Not much to do if it's too thin.
I guess if you like him enough, it shouldn't matter right?

[lahnnabell]

Whether or not it is a problem depends entirely on you. Were you able to orgasm at all? If a guy is too small, they are usually pretty aware of this fact. Either they've been told, or they've watched porn enough to understand that there are various dick sizes out there.

If he wasn't able to get you off during intercourse, did he offer to go down on you? Or get you off in some other way? What really matters is the effort he puts into your physical relationship. Too many guys have this idea that all women are supposed to orgasm vaginally, when in reality only about 30% of women actually do. Most need some sort of clitoral or other stimulation as well.

As Kaius said, length can be helped with positions that provide deeper penetration. Width or thickness can't really be helped though. I've been with guys on the thinner side and I didn't feel enough to really get me going. Combine that with their lack of desire to get me off in any other way, and I was out the door.

[Gigabitch]

He doesn't need a great big dick if he hes a talented and willing tongue. I'm sure no one is more aware of his physical inadequacy than he is, so I'm sure he's doing whatever he can to make up for it. If the sex was pretty good the first time, it will only get better, so I think you should give him a chance.

If he's not all freaky about it, he can always supplement with toys.