I do not mean to sound harsh or shallow but my boyfriend sucks at sex, foreplay, french kissing, or anything to do with sex. We have been together for 3 years (we have been engaged for a year) and at first I ignored it. Then, I tried guiding him while we had sex. Then, I decided to just talk to him about it. He was hurt and I apologized and just explained the areas he could get better at. He got over it and nothing changed. Now, I am to the point that I don't know whether or not to just give up. He is so bad that majority of the time he can not even find the correct hole. He sucks at kissing and foreplay. I normally have to just look at him to turn myself on cause him touching me does not help. What should I do?