Okay I need some advice here. I've known this guy for over 20 years and he knows my whole family. We are both now married and have kids and he's 8 years older than I am. We've always flirted with each other and wanted each other and finally we met up and had lunch, got a room and had sex. The big problem is we were both so nervous we weren't ourselves at all and the sex could've been much better. It was totally not what either of us expected and then we went and had drinks and started relaxing with one another and were being ourselves. The more we talk the more we want each other and it's because we've always clicked like that. What I'm wondering is were we so nervous because we've known each other so long and it was just uncomfortable or because we really have had feelings about each other and we were just scared shitless. Some comments would be great.