Hello,
Well it has been a few months since I broke up with my ex, wasn't too bad as far as break ups go at the time though I suspect that I am about to receive the fallout soon.
Anyway, been going out with mates and just enjoying myself to move on and get over my ex. I have been doing ok, I had stopped thinking about her all the time and was in a good place.
The other week I met somebody while out, just sat chatting with them and we hit it off. We exchanged numbers and have met up for a couple of dates. She is really nice, good fun to go out with and I have really enjoyed spending time with her. I wasn't actively trying to find somebody, it just kind of happened.
Now out of the blue I have heard from my ex, telling that she still loves me and misses me, she knows that I don't want to go back to her and I have made that clear but she wanted me to know. She is really low at the moment by the sounds of it and she has said she is trying to get over me but is finding it difficult.
What should I do? I don't want to tell her at the moment that I have met somebody else, for a start it is not serious at the moment and I don't know where it will end up leading but mainly I don't want to hurt her. I feel at the moment telling her would be a bad idea as she is very upset and seems quite low at the moment and I don't want to add to that. However on the other hand if I don't tell her she is no doubt going to be angry with me if she finds out.
She has already made me feel responsible for her feeling bad for breaking up with her, even though she arrange to met up with me when we broke up as she wanted to breakup with me. I just agreed with her reasons. For those of you who read the previous thread about the breakup, it feels like she is putting me on the emotional roller-coaster again.
S