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[xxazurexx]

I wouldn't have a clue. Never seen what anyone looks like...the men on here are kinda secretive for the majority, with more women showing pics and then not many women even have their pic on profile.

Have you all got pics in your galleries? I tried uploading some, but I couldn't get the hang of how to do it.

[SirWagginston]

I uploaded some. I can't get the thumbnails to show up, though.

[lahnnabell]

I nominate lahnabell.

Awww, me feels special

I haven't seen pics of anyone on here, with the exception of a few.

[the_robot]

I haven't uploaded pics of me because I'm afraid of what would happen if the wrong people stumbled upon them. That, and I don't want to scare the newbies away with my ugliness :-P

[xxazurexx]

^ I kind of have that fear. That someone I know would stumble among them, especially the ex. He has pc access. I'd feel a right fool and if he saw me here and especially after the stuff I've said...haha.

[lahnnabell]

Who the hell cares what their exes think? I'd be less concerned about what I said on here, and more concerned about why my ex or SO is checking up on my posts. You have to do some heavy searching on the forum if you want to find backdated posts and threads.

[the_robot]

Who the hell cares what their exes think? I'd be less concerned about what I said on here, and more concerned about why my ex or SO is checking up on my posts. You have to do some heavy searching on the forum if you want to find backdated posts and threads.

that's true, I wouldn't be concerned about that either... I think

[xxazurexx]

He gets all over the fooking place and could just stumble across this site and see me. Of course then he'd be curious and rummage through posts and I wouldn't want the SOB to get any clues as to how I was feeling, what I was thinking. There are references in a lot of my posts to him and he'd know it was him I was referring too. I wouldn't wanna give him the satisfaction to know I was still talking about him .

[lahnnabell]

Well, quit caring about what he thinks, and just let it roll off. The very fact that you are worried about how he will react to what you say about him reveals the hold he still has over you. Don't let that phase you. Most of the time you use your past relationships as a concrete example of letting other posters to know that you've "been there, done that". It gives your advice credibility.

Who cares what your ex says/thinks/feels, etc. He's your ex for a reason. If anything, your posts that harp on what an ass he is may inspire him to really take a look at himself and change for the better.

[Cbrider]

My ex mentioned she saw me on here shortly after we broke it off. It didn't slow me down a bit. Why the hell would you mold your life to cater to another person whom you have no obligation to?

[bluesummer]

I don't know what most ppl here look like, or I've just forgotten.

[Illusional]

I wouldn't have a clue. Never seen what anyone looks like...the men on here are kinda secretive for the majority, with more women showing pics and then not many women even have their pic on profile.

Have you all got pics in your galleries? I tried uploading some, but I couldn't get the hang of how to do it.

why don't you post a picture of yourself, i'm curious to see what you look like. as for the men, shit... i've got a gallery. i ain't ashamed.


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