I've been seeing a guy for awhile now. I found out about a month ago he had seen another woman. I got mad but got over it since it was in the past. He was upset and promised me it would never happen again, he can't lose me etc. A week later, I find an IM between him and another girl talking dirty and him inviting her to come down that night. I confronted him about it. He had all these excuses and denied it. I didn't talk to him for a week. He showed up a week later with a wedding ring. Of course I did not agree to that, but I trusted him again because I love him and want to make it work. Now I think he is talking to that girl again, all his texts are erased but a few, but I can see he's been calling her. What is he doing? Why does he continue to do this after giving me a ring and saying 'whatever I have to do to do this right with you.' What does he want? I am so confused. I want to confront him about this, but I don't have enough evidence and he will probably conjure up another excuse. This relationship has been hard to end, but my only question is what is going on in his head? Has anyone else dealt with someone like this, who seems to lead a double life? If he wants other women, why doesn't he just leave and have that? I've told him it's cool if he wants to be with other women, but he tries to keep me. If it were me, and he wasn't satisfying me, I would say so and move on and skip the drama. What the hell is he thinking?