A new look on dating!

[anonymous449]

Now I am not a Journalist or a killed writer I am just a woman. A woman who has read alot of articles on why men do not like you on a date or why relationships dont work, some of the flaws I have read about are things my boy friend of over a year had when we first started dating.

It isn't all about the spark on the first date and if he calls or not after the rules should say, the rules are rubbish, they tell you and him how to act then you wonder why it doesn't work out. I'll tell you why, it's because after the third or so date you forget the rules and be yourself which is good but then you have changed so much you aren't the woman that he fell for your society's portrayed version of a perfect first date girl. Some relationships work through this but not all of them do, just be yourself and if he runs a mile then he is definitly not worth it.

Men are simple some are after sex and some have brains and want the same as you, a relationship that is new and long, a relationship where neither of you know where it is going, will you end up getting married or not, the mystery, the excitement, the new born relationship.

Do you want that perfect guy or not, the blonde curls and blue eyes, well his not for everyone, so get over the fact that the guy you imagined you will marry will only stay in your head and the perfect guy for you will slip away when your pretending to be perfect over that first date.

You never know he may be clumsy or maybe he might not be perfect at every single little thing, so why don't you slip up while talking or drop some food off your fork, it will make him laugh and if it doesn't then henot the guy for you or maybe he is!! You have to take control and stop reading the rules and stop following them, enjoy life stop trying to find someone to share it with and just enjoy it ...... not let it pass until you are just one of them lonely, misunderstood elderley people who lives on their own and takes enjoyment at shouting at children, you'll enjoy it more with a partner!

[girl68]

WHHHHHHHHHHATever are you talking about!?

[Petit Papillon]

I've read first 10 and last 2 words, and all I can say is that your post is boring and is in wrong forum. I would move it but I go to sleep now, I'll think about it tomorrow...

[xxazurexx]

YawwwNNnnn.