I really need some advice here.

[Dragonfyre88]

Okay,so I am having a serious problem and am in need of some meaningful advice. One of my best friends in the entire world is getting back together with her old boyfriend whome she broke up with a few weeks ago, She broke up with him because he was'nt paying practically any attention to her. This being said..I have had feelings for her,more than friendship feelings for the past five years but I never attempted anything with her because I respected her relationship, She knows how I feel but..its the old story of wrong place, wrong time. Now,she is getting back together with him and I am left with the feeling of she should'nt be with him..If he was'nt being attentive two weeks ago,whats the chance its changed in less than a month? Being a guy I know we dont change that fast..and now shes talking about moving in with him because hes moving out to be with her. I am so confused on how to feel..She is happy,and thus as her friend,I should be happy for her. But..I cant help but choke on this feeling of intense jealousy, I dont know if he deserves her..Shes the best person i've ever met..so genuine and kind but yet..She allows herself to be emotionally denied by this guy simply because she cares about him. Well does'nt me caring about her matter? She knows how I feel and yet she goes back to him. I know I would show her the attention and love she deserves,and I dont want to see her being denied anymore by a guy who does'nt appriciate her. Please help me with this..should I be happy for her because shes happy? Or tell her how I really feel?..How i feel that she wont be happy with him even with him being closer..that he'll still be the same guy. I know this sounds like a jealous guy ranting and complaining,but I feel quite strongly for her and I dont want to see her be hurt anymore.

[IncognitoSir]

Why would you need to tell her how you feel if she already knows how you feel? You CLEARLY know exactly how she feels about you. She's going back to him because she doesnt feel the same about you as you do her. You're tormenting yourself with these feelings for her that you know she will not reciprocate. It's time for you to call it what it is, a friendship. Yeah as a friend you can give her advice, but its hard for you to do that because you ultimately want to be with her. I'm sure she realizes that and in turn voids anything you have to say about her dating this guy. I hope she doesnt use you for emotional support when he's not paying attention to her because if she is, you need to STOP being there for her like that. It won't increase your chances of wining her over in the end as you can see. She's just gonna run right back to him, and not only that, she's gonna move in with him.