Girls what would u do if i cheated on u like this??

[Corp900]

OK

I cheated on my girlfriend last night i got oral and fingered my ex, my ex has been pursuing me for a long time and ive been twarting her plans but finaly i inveted her last night and we hooked up.

The firstday i started going out with my gf, a strange spanish women grabbed my dick and offered me sex but i refused. SO THATS A POINT.

Im 22 years old, my gf is 19. She is from the middle east her Dad dosent let her have a girlfriend so she got in trouble recently so I told her lets just be friends that its too hot for a relationship now, after this the next day sexual play increased and we started saying I Love you way more often.

But last night I did the oral with my ex.

I feel guilty and its running up and down my mind, I read everywhere online to not tell your GF its selfish and I asked her hypothetically what would u do if I cheated and she said she wouldent forgive and dump me.

The side effects of cheating are WORSE then self gradification.

What should I do? Aswe were hooking up I was holding back alot refusing to kiss alot and didnt put it in her vagina because of my guilt.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

[VincenzoG91]

You're not ready for monogamy. Apologize to your girlfriend, break up with her and stay single unless your values change.

[girl68]

I would dump you with not second thought whatsoever.

[IncognitoSir]

Why did you make duplicate threads? There's only ONE angle you can be viewed as, a cheater.

[bluesummer]

I'd ruin your ****ing life and then I would dump you. I hate cheaters.

[Paperclip]

You might as well have just had sex with your ex because cheating is cheating is cheating.

ETA: Do you really think it is going to make your girl feel any better to know you wanted to have sex but felt guilty so did something you consider less 'bad'? It is about intention as well as actions and YOU invited your ex over, YOU took part in sexual acts and YOU wanted to do more, just didn't. Let your girl move on to somebody who respects her.