I recently broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago. We dated a little over 3 months, and I enjoyed being with her and she also felt the same. Well the third month I started working more, had school work, and I started to spend less to hardly no time with her. I started losing interest then and when I actually had time to spend with her I would just sleep. Well one weekend she had a concert to sing in at school and she really wanted me to go, well I couldnt make it because I had a club conference out of town. When I got back she called me crying and thought we should break up. Well I agreed with her and so we did. Well about a week after she called me and said a guy really liked her at work and she kinda liked him and ask me if it would hurt me if she went off with him. Well I don't have no control over her so I said no I didnt care. I really wanted her to be happy because Im the one that let the relationship fail. Well I care about her so much because she is the only girl that I have really connected with, the rest were basically just to have one and wouldnt last maybe a month. We decided before we broke up that we were going to be friends because we cared about each other so much we had to have some kind of relationship. Well recently I have been wanting to see her, just go to her house and spend some time with her. Well the last two times she would always say she was busy or was about to do something. The first time I asked her, I was like ok thats cool. But the second time just hurt my feelings and it turned into anger so I called her back asking what the deal was. She said she was scared to see me again because she still wasnt over me, and she didnt want to start liking me all over again. We tell each other on the phone sometimes we miss each other. I dont want to go back out with her, but its just like tonight for example. I called her and she said she was getting dressed to go out to eat with her new guy and she would talk to me later. Well she hasnt called me back and it just makes me so mad. Its like I agreed to break up and Im not even over her. She makes me so mad when she doesnt call me back. The way she talks about her new bf, it doesnt seem like they have a strong relationship. I want to stop caring, and stop getting mad when she doesnt give me attention that I want. I dont deserve any attention from her at all really. Sometimes I think about just not ever talking to her again when she hurts my feelings which she doesnt mean too, I mean I hurt her feelings too sometimes. God I typed all of this and I dont even know if I got the point around, I just dont know what to do.