Got restricted profiled on Facebook

[Illusional]

personally i've never heard of a tracker on fb, however, being that you were ignoring her probably upset her enough to delete your ass.


raverboy

[Illusional]

When will this "restricting" game stop? Or will it get worse?

buddy, it's all too late for you, you've already lost your chance because you decided to work on yourself rather than her.


raverboy

[Mish]

She probably doesn't want you to see photos with the guys she's going out with now

[NewStart]

Remove her as a Facebook friend. You've been downgraded to 'restricted'. Perhaps she was trying to avoid hurting you by de-friending you altogether. I was glad when my ex and I both agreed we'd remove each other from our FB friends. What's the purpose of No Contact if you're still creeping?

Have a real break and move forward, instead of putting yourself through these self-imposed mind games about what's motivating her.

[Username37]

So NC actually is pushing her away? I didn't want that.

And she's the one who was asking for space. I'm giving it to her and I guess she's being immature about it and restricting me.

[Illusional]

well take it as it is, she has blocked you because she obviously doesn't want to talk to you anymore.


raverboy

[sultan_of_swing]

Hi there,

I stayed "friends" on FB with my ex for a while after the break up but then realized I just couldn't take reading her weird status messages anymore (e.g. "life's perfect now") and her uploading pics of her horse which she bought even though she claimed she didn't have enough time for the relationship. So I deleted her. On the day we broke up she told me she could understand if I deleted her off FB...But now it seems to really bother her. She turned quite cold ever since. Oh well, can't change it now and don't really want to tbh. This whole social networking crap and how some ex gf/bfs deal with it or use it to manipulate other people does probably have something to do with maturity. Any mature person would just accept if their ex partner needed a break and as a result cut contact on FB. I mean, at least from my experience I know that cutting contact on social networking platforms does give you a great opportunity to start thinking clear thoughts again without constantly getting reminded of your ex n possibly painful memories. You can always add each other again once you're over the breakup.

I'd recommend you deleted her. However, if you just can't do that it would be sensible to hide her status messages so you don't get confronted with them every time you log onto FB. Also, you should stop yourself from looking at her profile. I know it's difficult but it's probably the most effective way to get over it.

Just wait and see. If it really bothers you, you can always ask her why she restricted you but I don't think that would be very wise. I mean, that's probably what she wants (attention). However, in my opinion she should learn that this is not the way to get attention!

Good Luck,
Nicco

[Username37]

Haven't been on FB in weeks. I feel good haha

Anyways she recently broke NC. She texted me "when are we gonna be friends again? "

I don't know what she's trying to do here...