Hi so here's some background info, we are teens, and started dating right in the end of school, so now we're dating for 4 weeks, and we just get together like 1 or 2 times a week, the problem is that her parents are a little controlling due to the fact that they are "unemployed" (they do some works sometimes) and they are always at home, ans she doesn't tell them that she is dating someone, because she is scared of the answer given by them, she has to lie about going out with me, sayin' that she is going out with her girl friends, and it frustrates me, because I don't like that she has to lie to her parents, I'm responsible, good student, I respect her, her friends and if could met her family, I would respect them too, now the problem is that we get together normally in a city 3 miles away from my house, and 1 from her's, I go there on my bike because we go to the beach, and we love the time we spend together, but when I go home, my back and neck start to hurt a lot ue to the exhaustion, and that hurt began to affect my other activities, even sleep, so when I ask her if she and I can get together in a place more closer to me, she always says that is because of her parents (they go to a beach in bettween the spot that I mentioned above and that city, I woul like to have some opinions about what should I do about this.
Please don't tell me to dump her because she will make me unhappy.