So here is the deal. I'm a 22 year old guy, and I've been a seeing a 24 year old for about a month or so now. Things have slowly been getting more and more intimate between us, and for the last couple of weeks have either been hanging out, talking or texting at least every other day. Before I get any further though, we have both made it clear to each other that we are not looking for a relationship right now, but i could definatley see myself dating her if I wasn't planning on moving in a month. Needless to say I'm really into her, and from my perpective she is really into me... at least I thought until now.
A few days ago we went to a concert out of town together, just the two of us. Everything was really good leading up to the concert, but then the day after I was getting a really weird vibe from her and she seemed really distant. She had been partying for 2 days before we went, so at this point she was feeling really under the weather, and I assumed that was why she was acting weird. She's been doing alot of partying this summer, and I want to make it clear that I have no problem with it, after all it is summer. So, when we got back home she texted me and told me she was gonna go out to her moms place out in the boonies for a night or two and just get away from the world to have some time to herself. The messege she sent though seemed really weird and out of character for how she normally sounded.
Anyways, I've tried to contact her via text a couple of times and ask her how she's feeling since we got back, but I havn't heard a word from her and I know she is getting my messeges because she has to come into town everyday to work. This really confuses me because we went from being in contact every single day before the concert, and now it seems like I'm clealy being avoided. My only explaination is that she feels like she's been seeing too much of me lately and is trying to crate some space to avoid feeling like she's heading towards a relationship. Maybe I'm just over reacting and making a big deal out of nothing. either way, I'm really confused about the whole thing, mainly because she just flipped the switch instantly without warning. I would greatly appreciate some advice and insight on this. Thanks.