"I'll try to deal with your appearance..."

[wellohwell]

I think moving to his place after two months of dating was way too soon. Especially when you knew that you weren't there yet.

Anyway, what's done is done, but keep it in mind for the future.

No I said I was moving at his PACE. Not to his place. I live in my own place.

[nerdy_guy]

I went to my vehicle to leave. He stopped me. Apologized. Said he should not have done this in front of me...that he admits that he wants her to want him because she hurt him so badly but that he wouldn't trade me for 14 of her. I stayed.

So he'll do it again. just not in front of you. and you're ok with that? that is still disrespect. What's next? he'll be with another woman and when you see him with her, he'll say sorry and tell you he'll be more discreet about it? He's a moron. Why the need to change wardrobe anyway? its not like you're running around the neighborhood in a loincloth anyway. If you've got bad attitude (which I believe you don't), then you need to change it. Aside from that only women and gay people talk about wardrobe.

[angel2002]

Girl, this has nothing to do about how you look like. You can be the most beautiful woman in the world, while he doesnt get over his ****ing ex, he will treat you like that.
he does not love you, and it has nothing to do about how u look, how you dress how you behave, it had to do with his ex. He still loves her, he has kids with her, and when he mentioned he wants her to want him , this was the last straw.
Stop being fooled around and move on with your life.
This man is such a ****ing asshole juts from reading i feel like beating the crap out of him. What a jerk!
1- YOU CAN DO WAY MUCH BETTER
2- YOU DONT NEED TO BE A BABY SITTER FOR GIS KIDS WHILE HE FLIRTS AND **** HIS EX, ALMOST IN FRONT OF YOU
3- YOU DONT NEED THIS BULLSHIT IN YOUR LIFE AT ALL.
Moving with him after 2 months dating , was a mistake. Let him disrespect you and treat you like shit was a mistake, but even after all those things, if you dont leave this man right now, im sorry to tell you but the shame is all on you.
Move on, find you a descent man and be happy.
The best of luck dealing with this piece of shit man u got yourself, you deserve better
Take care

[LailaK]

You have to consider that he is tearing you down so he can control you and you won't have the self esteem to leave him.

Too bad for him you are too smart to fall for that sh*t and you got out before he could really screw with your head. Good on you.