I just can't understand how somebody such as yourself that couldn't even hurt a fly ends with the most ridiculous people I have ever seen or heard of on Earth. Is there something you aren't telling us?
I can certainly see how a girl might react badly if you reject her advances. I was getting kind of touchy feely with a girl I was friends with years ago, but when I realized I wasn't ready and that maybe I didn't feel the same way, I was just flat out honest with her. She got pissed off, told all these people that I begged to be with her and that SHE was the one that rejected me, and basically spun the whole story around. I figured it was possible that she was talking about us like we were something to everybody and when I shot her down, she had to tell people something happened. That's my only rational explanation that I have for somebody that would take something private and air it out in the public. But the point is that it made me feel much better about my decision because it was certainly the right one. I let it roll off my back and I'm still "friends" with her, meaning I really don't talk to her at all, and it certainly works out for me. People are going to think what they want to think and believe what they want to believe, and if they know you well, they know what things are things you would do.
People that take things so negative and react that way are immature and very insecure people.
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