Hopefully you have learned alot from this experience and from the really sound advice you have gotten from the rational, intelligent people this forum has. I was entertained from page one to five but I kind of lost my steam to keep reading. It seems like every single day you had something to complain about or had to assert some kind of technique for fear of being controlled and walked all over. It reminded me of my ex's friend, who makes a huge fit over everything her boyfriend did or her friends did for that matter (Queen Bee syndrome?) and actually told my ex to "train" me. Like everything was a battle to keep leverage in the relationship. This is not what love is, and this is not what relationships are about. Playing games to make him "see how I feel" is not very good either. I don't know much about relationships but I know these for a fact.
And my ex was a bit mellow and I did walk on her, albeit not intentionally. She did communicate to me, I didn't listen, she stayed longer in it longer than she should have and she was the pissed off one at the end like it was all my fault that she did. You aren't liking how you are treated and you've already tried talking? It doesn't work? You take action. It's really simple as that.
I found alot of your concepts lilcutie to be more of "what you think girlfriends and boyfriend should do" and less about "what relationships are about." Yeah, there are certain things you should do (basics: communication, fidelity, etc.) but nobody is going to fit a perfect cookie cutter boyfriend mold you have conceived. There is going to have to be some tweaks to what you are looking for, what you want, what you are willing to give a shot that is only going to come with experience, maturing, and figuring out what it is about the other person that is truly important to you.
Is this guy a "one"? Probably not, and definitely not at this stage in his life. But this is a valuable learning experience. Take it and move forward.
Thank God the Hills have finally concluded the series.