Should I say something to guys who i think are getting too close?

[wondering3]

I've been seeing a girl for almost four months now, and she hangs out with a lot of guys, which does bother me a bit, but not enough to tell her to stop. she hung out with them long before i met her so i'm not trying to come in between that. At times tho i feel like there getting too flirty or saying things on her facebook they shouldnt..do i have the right to tell them to stop if its happening right in front of me? what about when guys are STARING at her when we go out? and when i mean staring, i mean blatantly staring strait at her chest with no discretion..i feel the urge to tell the guy to watch what hes looking at or f*** off..would this make me seem insecure or jealous?

[girl68]

It would make you look like a douche.

SHE should be the one setting boundries not you. What kind of things are they saying anyways?

Also- if her boobs are hanging out guys will oogle- and that's not their bad... that's your gf's for wearing shirts that low and expect them to not look. And if that's what hooked you in the first place by getting with her means accepting that.